About me – Real, Raw, and here to help you Grow

I’ve always loved to write — to share my experiences, my truths, and my lessons. Isn’t that what life’s really about? Expression, reflection, and connection.

Right now, I’m a woman who’s lived, loved, lost, and learned. My life has been full of challenges, heartache, resilience, and rebirth — and that’s exactly what drives my passion for helping others grow. I work as a transformational and relationship coach, supporting incredible clients as they take those life-changing steps to heal, to evolve, and to love again.

Because that’s what we’re all searching for in the end, isn’t it? Love. Connection. Purpose. Alignment.

But before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, you need to have one with yourself.

The Real Me

I’m not your typical “everything’s perfect” coach. My life hasn’t been a straight path — it’s been a rollercoaster of lessons. I’ve dated the wrong men, had my heart broken, rebuilt my life, and learned the hard way what it means to truly love yourself.

I’ve dated guys with private jets and guys on minimum wage — money’s never been the thing for me. I pay my own bills, I’ve built my independence, and I know what I bring to the table. My type? Let’s just say I’ve tried to break my own rules — and failed miserably! But that’s life. We try, we fall, we laugh, and we grow.

I’m a mum, a businesswoman, and a workaholic at times. I share my son 50/50 with his amazing dad, and life, for the most part, feels pretty great. I’m not out here chasing anything — but I’m always open to what’s meant for me. Because I truly believe that what’s aligned for you will never pass you by.

Why I Do What I Do

My life experiences — the trauma, the growth, the healing — they’ve all shaped the coach I am today. I know what it feels like to lose yourself in relationships, to question your worth, to rebuild from nothing, and to stand tall again.

That’s why I do this work.

As a coach, my job isn’t just to make people feel good — it’s to help them get results. Real, lasting transformation. I’m here to guide you through discomfort, not to cushion you from it. I’ll tell you the truth, even when it’s hard to hear, because growth doesn’t happen inside comfort zones.

My sessions are a safe space — but they’re also a space for honesty, accountability, and change. I’ll be your rock when life feels heavy, and your mirror when you need to see what’s really going on beneath the surface. Together, we’ll explore your relationships, your mindset, and your connection to yourself — because that’s where the magic happens.

My Philosophy

I believe that alignment is everything.

If you’re not aligned with yourself, your values, and your truth, then every relationship will feel like a struggle.

A relationship should help you grow, not drain you. It should feel like two people showing up, both present and connected. When that energy is right, everything flows. But when it’s not, it can become a relationship of chaos.

My goal is to help you find that alignment — within yourself first, and then in your relationships with others. To help you understand: Is this relationship growing, or is it keeping me stuck?

Because when you truly know yourself — when you’ve built that inner foundation of self-love, intimacy, and confidence — you attract relationships that reflect that same energy.

What Working With Me Feels Like

Working with me isn’t about ticking boxes or following a script. It’s about partnership. We’ll laugh, we’ll cry, we’ll dig deep — and we’ll create real movement.

You’ll learn to see yourself differently, to set boundaries without guilt, and to build relationships that feel healthy and balanced. Whether we’re exploring intimacy, self-worth, or emotional patterns, my approach is grounded in empathy, honesty, and practical growth.

While we might touch on your past, the focus is always forward — building the life and love you deserve.

In the End, I’m Just Like You

I’m a woman still figuring it all out — still learning, still growing, still healing. I don’t have all the answers, but what I do have is the experience, the tools, and the passion to walk this path alongside you.

Coaching isn’t about perfection — it’s about progress. It’s about understanding yourself so deeply that you stop settling for less than what you deserve.

If you’re ready to break old patterns, open your heart, and finally align with the love and life that’s waiting for you — then we’re already on the same page.

2 thoughts on “About me – Real, Raw, and here to help you Grow

  1. Wow kerry .. just took some time to read this and honestly you are an amazing! Don’t let anybody tell you different you should be so proud of yourself and your inner child💕 it takes a lot to speak out and talk about traumatic things and it’s a inspiration to people who have gone threw similar or the same🫶🏽keep being you🤍lots of love Kendra xxx

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